i agree with the writer because even a norwegian study indicates that older children are smarter than their younger siblings, younger siblings are more dependent. firstborns are totally different, always show a high level of maturity and knowledge they have is also very high, so we can say that firstborns are people who know how to deal with a difficult situation. the younger brother of the firstborn always seek help because the older brother always knows how to act. the Parents have a special affection for the firstborn because he was the first person who saw it grow

all children can and should be taught to be independent, but all children are not the same, especially if they are over two brothers. Each child develops skills in a different way. You can order everything to everyone, but you can not expect that the results are the same. u must know what the real capabilities of each child to help, and not solve you the job when he is able to do it alone. should be given the opportunity to experiment, to make mistakes, to fail or hit, and all that takes time, depending on age and learning ability of each child. it is more important what they say and how they act parents in the process, that the provision that has the child, and thus ensure that all children are equal